
In the media…
my story was featured with Desert Harvest Aloe!
My Story with Interstitial Cystitis and Desert Harvest Aloe
By: Danica J Brice
Compassion, patience, acceptance, and surrender -- these are but a few of the ways that living with chronic pain has changed me. It broke me down, creating space for me to rebuild myself. It encouraged me to yell at God so that I could intentionally create a relationship with something larger than myself. It forced me to prioritize myself and my healing above all else, for, without your health, you have nothing to give.
It feels like a bad dream. Looking back, I’ve been engulfed by a completely debilitating case of Interstitial Cystitis for the better part of my adult life. It has defined me. Thankfully, it has not destroyed me.
One of the major turning points in my healing journey came when, after 12 years of being a "bladder cripple," as one doctor called me, I started taking Desert Harvest Super Strength Aloe. This hands down, saved my life.
I started taking DHA just after separating from my ex-husband of 15 years. During that painful time of my life, physically, mentally, and emotionally, the only work I was able to do was to nanny two toddlers for a friend at minimum wage. I was only able to have access to this incredible supplement because of the company’s aptly named Compassionate Assistant Program (CAP) designed to address these exact kinds of circumstances. Desert Harvest Aloe made their priceless product available to me free of charge, as my income was below the poverty level. And during COVID, it has continued to be a godsend, as my work was furloughed by the quarantine.
Five years after I started taking it, I am mostly recovered. I show up for my life now. From walking my daughter through virtual school to building a life coaching business and finishing my book that captures my healing journey -- I am alive and thriving.
From experiencing pain-free sex within a healthy romantic relationship to maintaining my sisterhood of social support, both contributing to and receiving their love and guidance -- I am alive and thriving.
From finding a doctor who really listens to me, empathizes with me, and holds space for my healing, to becoming healthy enough to get my driver’s license and buy my first car at the age of 38 -- I am alive and thriving.
By healing my body and spirit I’ve become unstoppable. I was able to sit through three hours of negotiation during my divorce. I flew on airplanes and hiked mountains. I took my daughter to a movie theatre for the very first time. I put together a fundraiser and took her and her step-brother on vacation to Legoland too! I took myself on dates to the thrift store and tried on clothes for as long as I wanted. I went home to New Mexico from Washington DC for a wedding and a funeral. My life is mine to savor.
There were countless nights I spent sitting in a bathroom, alone, in too much pain to sleep. Time stood still then, as the world passed by without me. Now my schedule is filling up and my new struggle is figuring out how to balance building the career of my dreams with full-time motherhood while maintaining a healthy social life. I can handle healthy people's “problems.” It’s truly a privilege to rest when I get tired, knowing the repercussions for overexerting myself won’t include spending the next three days completely incapacitated, sitting on the toilet in anguish.
So, I feel like the battery bunny. I do everything, take every opportunity given to me, engage with everyone I meet with purity and wonder. There's so much I've missed. All that matters to me now is being the best possible mother, friend, and partner to my chosen family and serving the community that supported me in my journey to recovery.
I would not be where I am today without the support of my people, prioritizing a healthy diet and daily exercise, pelvic floor physical therapy, endless journaling/prayer, some prescription medication, and taking the full suggested dose of Desert Harvest Aloe Super Strength Aloe. This supplement removed my pain and helped my body to heal. It gave me wings to fly and the freedom to live my best life.
To the founders and team at Desert Harvest Aloe, thank you. There isn’t a day that goes by that I’m not grateful for the work you do. And I know that if I hadn’t found my way out of the haze of severe and constant pain, I wouldn’t have had it in me to live with this non-terminal disease. Your work not only improves the quality of the lives of your customers, which is significant, but it saves their lives as well. It saved mine.
For more information on Danica's Empowerment and Relationship Coaching, and to schedule a free discovery session, visit her website at https://www.danicajbrice.com/
on stage with Kyle cease!
On January 24, 2022, I attended a Transformation Comedy Performance by Kyle Cease in Alexandria VA with my amazing friend and coach, Jess Lilly. Little did I know that I would find myself on stage, sharing with a room full of 500 of my new closest friends how the 40th anniversary of my father’s suicide was affecting me! I jest, but after the event was over, I was approached by many of the night’s attendees who resonated with my honesty, vulnerability, and big dreams. One such person was a life coach who partnered with a fellow coach friend to help me put together a fundraiser to take my daughter and her step-brother to Legoland, just as I had professed was my dream on stage that very night. And you know what, three months later, we were on a plane.
One year later, to the day, I met my amazing partner, a fellow survivor of suicide.
What that night taught me is that you never know just how quickly, beautifully, and miraculously your dreams will come true the second you let them flow from your lips. Saying them in front of a theatre full of perfect strangers probably helped too. All my thanks to those amazing philanthropists and all of the supportive friends and family in my life who were ready and waiting to fund our adventure — all I had to do was ask!
Cheers to bravery, the kind that makes a person show an audience their underwear. Yeah, I’m that girl. And proud of it!